Monday, June 4, 2012

Life Milestones

I've got pictures and a post almost done from our fantastic Memorial Day Weekend Beach Vacation but it's not quite done, maybe this week..who knows!  However, this weekend we're headed out on another road trip adventure and mini-vacation.  Once of hubz' cousins is graduating from high school and with this graduation starts the week of celebrating several of the young adults in our family all hitting different, important school/life milestones.  Our oldest niece will also graduate from high school, my little brother we'll be leaving middle school and my baby sister's oldest son will be finishing elementary school.  I think the last two are the hardest for me to wrap my mind around.

Before I became I Momma I never realized how big an impact this different turning points in our life mark the next chapter.  Milestones aren't just the way we make sure our wee babes are progressing the way they should be but also the way we as parents measure how we're doing.  They also remind us of how far we've come and how far those we love have come.

Being a Momma has made me much more sentimental, not that I wasn't already, and aware of these things.  If only because before I know it my little Bean will be starting school, kissing girls, driving, going to prom and leaving for college. 

Monday, May 14, 2012

Too Much

Yup, once again I've been MIA and once again with no good excuse as to why.  There's just too much going on lately that by the time I get home and get through evening rituals I'm pooped and passed out by 930.  Not to worry though in 9 days we're taking a vacation to the beach!  It'll be the Bean's first trip and I'm SO EXCITED!!!! We'll spend four fantastic fun filled days with family and I couldn't think of a better way to spend Memorial Day Weekend.

Come June things should hopefully slow down and bit and I'll get back to regular blogging, ya know for all 5 people that read this blog and actually care about my mundane life.  Until then know I'm still alive and just trying to make it through the next 9 days without flipping out on my office mate, oh do I have stories about that!

Happy Monday!  Oh and Happy Belated Mother's Day. Hope your Sunday was spent doing what you wanted to do and enjoying your reason for celebrating the day.

Monday, April 9, 2012

18 Months...okay 19 months

Bean
The last 4 months flown by way to fast.  To me it's like I just brought you home but looking at you I know that's not the case.  Every day you change, even if it's just in a new little aspect of your personality.  Your vocabulary is ever expanding and every day you know a new word.  Before we know it you'll be telling us stories, I can't wait for that. You LOVE the bath and being outside.  You're still my little string bean, you weighed in at 21 pounds, 13 oz and 32 inches long -- not much change in weight from your 12 month appointment but much longer.

 You and Gozer have be come the best of friends, much to Momma's dismay because I'd love nothing more than to get rid of the pain in the ass.  You'd spend all day running around the backyard chasing him and forcing him to eat rocks and leaves if you could.

In May you'll be going to the Beach for the first time and Daddy and I are so excited for it.  I'm sure you'll eat your weight in sand and probably hate the water, you're not a fan of cold water, but I'm sure it's going to be a great time.  We'll be there with all of your Aunts and Uncles and cousins on Daddy's side of the family.

My sweet, sweet boy words can't explain the love I have for you. Everyday I love you more.  No matter how old you get, or how big since you're likely to be much bigger than Momma, I will forever love you and you will always be my Baby Boy.

Always,
Momma

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

MIA

Holy Moly, I didn't realize how long it'd been.  We've been uber busy over hear at the Swiftly Growing house and with the coming of Easter and the start of Spring it only promises to get busier.  I've got lots to talk about but it'll be slow coming as we're trying to get some projects done around the house and that leaves me with very little free time and what free time I have I'm exhausted.

So hold tight, I promise I got stuff a brewing.

Tuesday, March 6, 2012

What a Weekend

I know it's Tuesday but it's not too far removed from the weekend from me to talk about it.  Friday nite I broke out in hives with swollen lips from a reaction to I don't know what.  By Saturday the hives were EVERY where (use your imagination) and I though I was going to scratch my skin off. I woke up Sunday and thought I was getting better WRONG!  Those damn hives returned in force. By yesterday I wanted to rip my skin off, so I called for an appointment and wound up with a shot in my butt and 12 days worth of oral steroids to hopefully get rid of the damn hives.  Today, day 5, they're still here but definitely not as bad.

Oh but wait it gets better.  The step-son had a Robotics competition Saturday, and I was all set to go out look ally hivey (<~ yup totally a word).  I dropped him off at 7, getting up at 630 on a Saturday when the Bean was actually sleeping in did not make me happy but alas hubby had to hang at home due to our busted water heater (that's a whole other story), and went back home.  Just as we're getting ready to leave the house to go up to the competition his coach calls and says he's throwing up.  I was kind of disappointed for him because he'd been so looking forward to this day but well I guess the frown on vomitting kids at Robotics competition.  Really, what a little vomit amongst competitors.  Also, the wee babe was uber fussy with a super snot nose and whining at naseum...yup we're teething, still...again...either way it's HELL!

By Sunday the big kid was on the mend and the Bean was in better spirits, I was still itchy.  Now we're into a new week and hoping for less sickness and more normal.  Well, as close to normal as we get around here.

Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Good Ol' Days

It's wordless Wednesday but all the good pictures are at home and I'm at work so the wordlessness (yes that's a word) will have to wait until later.  For now I have thoughts in my head that I need out and since that's part of the my reason for this space on the interwebs I'm going to let it flow.

Lately I've been missing the good ol' days.  For me those days were the 4 years I spent enjoying the fun in the sun in Tampa for undergrad.  I'll tell anyone that will listen that college was the BEST 4 years of my life.  The memories from that time in my life still bring a smile to my face and sometimes help me through my rough days.  I miss the carefree life of a twenty something with  no responsibilities and no place to be.  Mostly though I miss the friendships.  I miss knowing that on any given nite I could AIM (it was our FB before FB existed) or call anyone of my friends and know that I'd be more than welcome to join them on whatever adventure they were partaking in, even if it was just Bennigan's for happy hour or a nite in watching movies and being silly.

These days I'm lonely.  Don't misunderstand what I'm saying, I LOVE my life but I feel like I'm missing something.  That feeling of knowing that when necessary there's always going to be someone to call and hang out with.  Being a grown-up is hard.  Those same ladies that I use to rely on to get me out of my head are now Moms, wives, girlfriends and working women and let's be honest with the millions of things we have going on in our lives it's hard to make time for our friends.  Especially when we're scattered throughout the country.  I'm the first to admit also that I'm a crappy friend.  I hate the phone, so I rarely call.  I always have the best of intentions when it comes to birthdays but then before I know it the moment has passed.

All this rambling is to say, simply, I miss my Tribe.  That group of women that helps lift you up and make you laugh.  The ones that don't think twice about inviting to any little thing, even if it's just to shop for groceries.  Maybe when the Bean is older and we have other kids and they start making friends I'll finally have that.  A Momma can only hope, so for the next 3-4 years I guess it's just the usual status quo.

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Wordless Wednesday - Cool Dude

We got a bag of clothes from a friend a couple of weekends ago and I finally opened them last weekend and found these sun glasses.  At first he wasn't a fan, but then he was all about them.

Momma's cool little dude